Receiving Complaints as Gifts!?
As a church pastor, I can tell you that there are few things more discouraging than complaints. We tend to feel under attack and immediately break into defence mode. Maybe we could do with a fresh perspective.
As a church pastor, I can tell you that there are few things more discouraging than complaints. We tend to feel under attack and immediately break into defence mode. Maybe we could do with a fresh perspective.
Where we lack skills and consistency, our ability to collaborate diminishes. We won’t remember to think in terms of wider ministry partnerships if we do not deeply value partnership. Without maturity of character we will find it difficult to sustain challenging and complex relational work that does not bring immediate benefits to us.
Dave Moore’s The Team Leader’s Handbook is pitched at people who aren’t confident or experienced team leaders, particularly those who are just starting out in a new role. Moore gives words of comfort to those who feel intimidated, but he also gently pushes those who may be reticent to undertake leadership or those who need help to persevere with their role. He persuades his readers to see how necessary the team leader role is, and how joyful and satisfying it has the potential to be.
Are we willing to send out those we’ve poured ourselves into, so they can take the gospel somewhere else and bless others? Are we prepared to take the hit in our own ministry so the gospel can go beyond our church, our denomination, our campus, even to the ends of the earth?
Sometimes when I asked Dave a question about the Bible passage we were looking at, he would say, ‘I don’t know, Andrew, I’m just a dumb truck driver.’ It was a way for Dave to protect himself from failure. But was it true? Absolutely not!